
Sally, Jessie, Whitney and I went to Tulsa to say farewell to a very fine gentleman; Carl Skay. We had a lovely trip together which is enough of a reason to get together, but we received a very special blessing for making the trip. Carl's funeral was fabulous! His daughter (Sally's best friend Margret Hartley) did a wonderful job putting together such a perfect and loving tribute to a man that was truly a remarkable human being. From the pictures that chronicled his amazing life (he caddied for Babe Ruth, Lou Gehrig and Ben Hogan plus invented the processes to make ammoniun sulfate and alum) to the table with his three favorite tools (a Moosehead Lager, a golf club and his slide rule) the insert in the bulletin that listed his favorite jokes and his grand children's participation; the whole thing was just lovely. Margret wrote the petitions that were read by his grandson Danny. They were so perfect and moving I am going to include them here in total. Good news kids. You no longer have to worry about what I want at my funeral. Jessie and Whitney now know. just follow Margret's lead.
Prayers of the Faithful for Carl Skay
For Carl Edmund Skay, devout catholic, faithful husband, lovong father and grandfather, exacting engineer, proud American and proud Canadian, we ask God to reunite him with those members of his family that have preceeded him in death and hold him safely in the palm of you hand until we can all be together again in Your heavenly kingdom,
We pray to the Lord
In honor of Carl's pride in a "job well done", let us remember his dedication, his engineering percision, and his work ethic with regard to tasks both big and small. We pray for those seeking employment that they might discover the dignity of work and the pleasure of doing ones best'
We pray to the Lord
In honor of the value that Carl placed on education, let us pray for all those that teach and for all those that learn that each may find fulfillment and satisfaction in there pursuits,
We pray to the Lord
In honor of Carl's love of dogs, especially Stella, Theo and Seattle, who gave him comfort and companionship in the last years of his life, let us always remember to take good care of those creatures that God has entrusted to us as stewards of His creation,
We pray to the Lord
In honor of the amazing humor and grace with which Carl faced his last difficult year of life, let us pray for those who are faced with the same challenge of long-term illness and loss of independence and those that care for them,
We pray to the Lord
In honor of Carl's enjoyment of a round of golf, a good joke and a cold beer, let us pray that, in the midst of our busy lives, we remember to count our blessings, to find balance and to appreciate all that God has given us,
We pray to the Lord.
What a perfect and loving tribute. I am so glad that I got to know, if only briefly. Your humor and grace touched me deeply. I hope that I leave as wonderful a legacy as you. Rest in peace dear friend. I will remeber you fondly each time I use one of the tools that you gave me or I tell a really bad joke! I hope you are with your wife in a place that is far more wonderful than you imagined!